LIFE

So, everyone I virtually know is getting married or is on the verge of it. There are some in this who are perpetually in a state of running away from it all and some who just can't wait for the day to come. Some want it more than anything in this world whereas for others its nothing but a formality in order to fit into society. For those few who really want it, they come from the school of thought that movies like Hum Aapke Hai Kaun and Dil Toh Pagal Hai have conditioned them for.These people believe truly in their hearts that there is only one and truly one made for them somewhere in this world. The other are the people who have a more cautious and realistic approach which makes them want all those things like love, mush and marriage, but at the same time they have to put up a tougher exterior because they think if they believe in these things there would be lesser chances that they will actually work out for them. So they are the so-called realists. What the whole point in all this, as someone had put forth is the basic need to take forward your heritage(how much ever or however little that maybe). What I say is why can't u be a realist who believes in these things? Why do u have to be either one or the other? Why not just be both, afterall what's stopping you. Life?

Note

We maybe here, maybe now...but the next moment who knows....so live each moment like its your last....and see what life offers you back....if it works well and good.....if not, then atleast you wouldve tried.

LOVE

Why do we always live in the future? What about the here? The now? I love him but he doesn’t think much of it. He doesn’t reciprocate my love. I know he loves me too. But maybe I want the intense, passionate kind of love shown in movies like “When Harry Met Sally” or “Sleepless in Seattle”. Will I ever get that in my life? A love that transcends all boundaries and myths? Will I ever be wooed passionately and be proposed to atop the Eiffel? With champagne and red roses? Will I ever get to experience such a grand gesture of love? Only time shall tell.

HAPPINESS

Equality is a mirage. If basic needs and wants are not met then what are we doing talking about equality ? We criticise foreigners because we were dominated. Maybe we had to understand that that's what made us stronger and more resilient to do more, be more and hence achieve more. Its a basic human need from time immemorial. To be able to move to the "next" level. Today were all so caught up in what's "next", that we forget where are we really going.Are we reaching there in the "right" manner ? Or are we just floating along wishing that one day well get it all? And what is that getting it all really supposed to mean ? Material things ? Emotional ? Pleasure ? Career ? Relationships ? Love ? Money ? Glory ? Fame ? Temporary Happiness ? The list can go on....simply put there's no beginning and no end to it. The little things are the only things that will bring u actual joy. A hot cup of tea in the rains, nature, fresh air, health, sunlight, moonlight walk on the beach, finding everlasting love, being with family, enjoying life knowing friends are fit, fine and happy in their lives, sleeping under a moonlit sky with a friend looking for a shooting star. You need to feel it....its not something u can articulate or speak of....Yes, that's what happiness truly means to me. What about U ?

~Soulmate~

Only once in your life, I truly believe, you find someone who can completely turn your world around. You tell them things that you’ve never shared with any other soul and they absorb everything you say and actually want to hear more. You share hopes for the future, dreams that will never come true, goals that were never achieved and the many disappointments life has thrown at you. When something wonderful happens, you can’t wait to tell them about it, knowing they will share in your excitement. They are not embarrassed to cry with you when you are hurting or laugh with you when you make a fool of yourself. Never do they hurt your feelings or make you feel like you are not good enough, but rather they build you up and show you the things about yourself that make you special and even beautiful. There is never any pressure, jealousy or competition but only a quiet calmness when they are around. You can be yourself and not worry about what they will think of you because they love you for who you are. The things that seem insignificant to most people such as a note, song or walk become invaluable treasures kept safe in your heart to cherish forever. Memories of your childhood come back and are so clear and vivid it’s like being young again. Colours seem brighter and more brilliant. Laughter seems part of daily life where before it was infrequent or didn’t exist at all. A phone call or two during the day helps to get you through a long day’s work and always brings a smile to your face. In their presence, there’s no need for continuous conversation, but you find you’re quite content in just having them nearby. Things that never interested you before become fascinating because you know they are important to this person who is so special to you. You think of this person on every occasion and in everything you do. Simple things bring them to mind like a pale blue sky, gentle wind or even a storm cloud on the horizon. You open your heart knowing that there’s a chance it may be broken one day and in opening your heart, you experience a love and joy that you never dreamed possible. You find that being vulnerable is the only way to allow your heart to feel true pleasure that’s so real it scares you. You find strength in knowing you have a true friend and possibly a soul mate who will remain loyal to the end. Life seems completely different, exciting and worthwhile. Your only hope and security is in knowing that they are a part of your life. 

Courtesy:internet

Bars & Coffee Shops

The most beautiful people are the ones with open minds.The ones who will tell you that sorrow is just as wonderful as bliss, and that at any moment you can be whoever you want to be and love whoever and whatever you want to love- whether it is religion or same sex or drinking or pain. I sit at bars and linger in coffee shops just to find these kind of people. 
Without knowing it they are slowly changing the world.